For some reason, it is generally accepted that men pay attention only to busty and long-legged beauties, whose appearance is similar to that of an angel. Of course, natural data plays a significant role, but the internal content is much more important.
No matter how beautiful a girl is, if she is sloppy or stupid, the man will soon leave her and begin to look for a more interesting soul mate. What qualities do men value in a woman? Now we will consider this topic in more detail and even compile a small list. Of course, someone may object: isn’t that a lot of honor? After all, representatives of the stronger sex are often far from angels. We won't argue. And they leave much to be desired. But now we are interested in the list of women's ones.
Qualities that men value. Honesty
In any relationship between a man and a woman, trust is very important. When a young man catches his chosen one in a lie more than once, we can safely say that the relationship will soon end. A girl who has committed some minor offense must definitely muster up the courage and tell her life partner about everything. Otherwise, even the smallest lie can lead to a scandal or separation in the future. Honesty and sincerity are the main qualities of a woman that men value.
Emotional stability
Not a single representative of the stronger sex can endure the constant hysterics that a woman throws. Of course, there is no need to go from one extreme to another, and sometimes crying a little may even be useful. Especially if you remember that every man is a protector. But it’s still not worth throwing up scandals accompanied by breaking dishes. It is better to try to calmly understand the problem and come up with a solution.
Ability to ask for help
What other qualities of a woman are there that men value? For example, the ability to ask for help. A man just needs to feel needed and useful. You should not assume that the majority of the stronger sex will not pay any attention to a request for help. For example, a girl passing by a young man smiles and asks him how to get to such and such an address. Will the guy really not respond?
If the sympathy is mutual, then the young man can offer the beautiful lady to accompany her to her destination.
The same should happen when a man and woman are already living together. Don't forget about the defender's nature. So, a simple request to help move a table will make a guy feel proud for a long time. And tenderness... for a fragile creature whose name is woman.
Self confidence
What do men value in a woman? Self confidence. Very often, girls begin to doubt their appearance, figure, etc., literally bombarding their man with questions like: “Maybe I need to lose weight?” (change your hairstyle, clothing style, dye your hair, etc.). Thus, she unconsciously forces the male gaze to notice small flaws that were not previously visible. The guy begins to think and soon becomes disappointed in his companion.
What can be done to prevent this from happening? If a woman decides to change (no matter what the changes are), she must realize that she is doing it for herself. Therefore, the new image should be liked first of all by the girl herself, and only then by everyone around her. A man himself is able to express his opinion when he sees something new in the appearance of his soulmate. If he doesn’t notice any changes, then maybe he should look for another life partner?
Ability to listen
If we talk about the qualities of a woman that men value, then, of course, they include the ability to listen.
Very often you can hear the phrase that girls are real talkers, and it is absolutely impossible to stop them. Of course, no one is going to argue with this statement, but we shouldn’t forget about men. Many representatives of the stronger sex like to talk about life, work, or just about their hobbies.
In this case, women can be advised to be patient and learn to listen carefully to their opponent. At the same time, the girl should not just nod her head when answering questions, but should fully participate in the conversation (sometimes sympathizing and empathizing, and sometimes laughing or asking relevant questions). The main thing is not to interrupt the man, trying to tell him a similar story from your life. It’s better to wait until he finishes and only then tell him what you wanted.
If a girl really sincerely treats a young man, then she will not have to force herself to listen to men’s stories. As a rule, care and attention come with love. Therefore, in most cases, a woman herself will want to inquire about the affairs and successes of her man.
Unobtrusiveness
What qualities do men value in a woman? For example, unobtrusiveness. At this point we are talking about girls who very often demand gifts from their men. This should not be done under any circumstances! At such moments, many guys begin to feel not good enough and unable to surprise the lady of their heart.
For a young man to feel needed, he must allow himself to be surprised. That is, a girl should enjoy an unexpected romantic dinner or a small present, and so on. As a last resort, a woman can afford to give her significant other a subtle hint. For example, talk about a friend who is going on vacation with her husband, and the like. Thus, no demands will be made on the man, but the idea that he, too, should please his beloved will be imprinted in his head. The main thing is not to make hints too often, otherwise even they will turn into obsessive reproaches.
Ready for the first step
What other qualities of a woman are there that men value? Ready for the first step. It is much more difficult for men to take the first step at the beginning of communication due to their increased pride. They are afraid of being rejected. Therefore, they may take a long time to decide to talk to a girl or simply smile at her.
If a woman sees that a young man is constantly looking at her, but does not approach her, it is quite acceptable to do it first. Even an unobtrusive smile can become a reason for closer communication. By making the first step, the girl confirms mutual sympathy, liberating the guy and making him more confident.
Good sense of humour
Talking about the qualities of a woman that men value, we will also mention the good. A loud, and most importantly, sincere laughter makes a woman in demand among guys. The male half of humanity is so designed that they love it when their skills are admired. So, a girl who flirtatiously (but not feignedly!) laughs in response to a joke told by a guy will immediately interest the narrator.
Owners of a perky laugh and a cheerful disposition have always been popular among men, even if the girl’s appearance is not the ultimate dream. But gloomy and gloomy young ladies with good natural qualities for some reason scare off the stronger sex.
The main thing is not to try to squeeze out laughter if the joke did not seem funny. It's better to just smile.
Compassion
What qualities of a man does an Aries woman value? Compassion. However, this quality is valuable for both women and guys, and the zodiac sign also does not play a special role. Any girl should feel her soulmate and understand when a man needs advice or just support. The main thing is to always show the young man that he is not alone, they believe in him and love him. Naturally, the same is expected from guys.
You shouldn’t scold your life partner if he wants to try himself in something new. On the contrary, a woman is simply obliged to encourage a man in his endeavors. This must be done even when the girl herself is not sure of the success of the idea. There have been a huge number of cases in life when a man, inspired by the support of his beloved, achieved incredible success.
Naturalness
What do men value in a woman? Naturalness. Two points can be included here. The first is natural behavior, which very much attracts the stronger half of humanity. Girls shouldn't even try to impress with unnatural behavior. After all, even if a young man becomes interested, he will most likely be disappointed in the future. After all, it is impossible to live your whole life watching how to talk, walk, and so on. Soon the girl herself will reveal her true nature, but whether a man will like her or not is a question. And again, naturalness and openness in behavior are qualities of a man that women value in relationships. Yes, that's how everything is interconnected.
Second point. Naturalness can be understood as natural beauty, and not the abuse of makeup. “War paint,” as bright makeup is often called, can scare a man away. After all, the real face is hidden under a layer of makeup, which means the girl is shy or ashamed of something. When a woman wears makeup in natural tones, the young man immediately understands that this representative of the fairer sex has nothing to hide.
Conclusion
Now you know what qualities men value in women (a list of them is presented in the article). We hope that the information will help the lovely ladies in life to become even better.
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Dear readers, today in our column we will talk about what qualities women value in men. Interesting topic, right? And for both men and women. This might help men understand us women better. And it will allow women to look at themselves from the outside and think once again about why we generally value and love our men. And, of course, love them even more for it. The column is led by Elena Khutornaya, writer, blogger, author of intuitive cards, and I give the floor to Elena.
Greetings, dear readers of Irina’s blog. In the comments to our articles, wishes were expressed that we write not only for a female, but also for a male audience. After discussing this with Irina, we decided that this was just the right topic that would also be of interest to men. So, what qualities do women love and value in men?
Women cannot always answer this question unambiguously, because we are also attracted to different things in men. And sometimes, in order to see some qualities in your man, you have to give up others. But the main thing is not that a man should be perfection and combine all conceivable virtues, but that he should have exactly what is most valuable to us to see in a loved one.
However, we women still lack something in a relationship. And then we begin to dream about some missing qualities in our men. At the same time, we forget that every advantage has a downside. And are we ready to accept this downside along with the desired quality or, again, can we only come to the conclusion that, after all, our man is the best for us?
So, let's talk about valuable best masculine qualities and how they can create difficulties.
Reliability
Despite emancipation, our genetic memory always turns out to be stronger, so very often, first of all, we look for this in men - guarantees of reliability, stability, that strongest shoulder and strong wall that will allow us, fragile and weak, to feel protected.
Reverse side
Reliable people are often quite predictable even in their spontaneity. Their goals are rational and practical, they themselves are serious and thorough. It also often happens that while taking responsibility for providing and protecting loved ones, they reserve the right to make all important decisions, so you need to be prepared for the fact that you will have to sacrifice your interests in some way.
Thrift
Many women dream of their husband helping with the housework, taking care of the children, and solving household issues. I could cook, do laundry, and clean the floor. Not to mention, of course, the men's work - nailing, screwing, repairing, looking after cars, getting insurance on time. There would probably be nothing more to dream about in life if men helped us like that.
Reverse side
From practical experience, next to such a man you have to be very economical. And you need to be prepared for the fact that he will notice that the floor has not been washed, that things have not been put away, that the food is yesterday’s, and that there is expired kefir on the bottom shelf of the refrigerator.
Attractiveness
Of course, every woman wants her man to be attractive, but this parameter is so subjective that it is unlikely to be possible to say anything specific about what this attractiveness should consist of. Some people like muscular, handsome men, others like respectable, older men. Stylishness and polish are important to some, while others prefer discreet elegance or slight carelessness in appearance. But it definitely benefits a relationship when a woman is pleased with how her man looks. So men should emphasize their strengths, hide their shortcomings, but, of course, they need to remain themselves.
Reverse side
Often women choose not the men they like, but those who are able to make a favorable impression on others. However, what is more important for us, in the end, that our friends envy us or that we ourselves look at our man with admiration and love?
Self confidence
What truly adorns a man is self-confidence. So even without being handsome, but having self-confidence, he will seem very attractive in the eyes of women. With such men, our confidence also increases that, if necessary, he will be able to protect, achieve, and support.
Reverse side
In some situations, this confidence can turn against us. And if we lack this confidence, then it will be easy to feel vulnerable, and this is not always pleasant.
Sense of humor
Nothing brightens a relationship more than the opportunity to laugh together with a loved one. When our ideas about what is funny coincide, it unites us so much - there is little that compares with this feeling. Also very valuable is a man’s ability to treat life and himself with humor - thanks to this, many things can be experienced much easier.
Reverse side
This quality can also be turned against us, and the better a man knows our weak points, the more painful his jokes towards us can be. Again, if humor is more manifested not in wit, but in playfulness, then this can often be perceived as frivolity.
Ability to understand and feel
Attention and understanding - these qualities in men can conquer any woman. This is why we love the period of falling in love in a relationship so much, because men at this time are so open, generous with feedback, compliments, they are ready to listen to us, support, console, notice our moods, changes in appearance. Love for a woman, in many ways, begins precisely from such moments, which is why it is so difficult to look for warmth in a relationship when, having experienced a burst of love, men return to their business and notice us only when the time is right for sex. But sex for a woman often begins with communication, with the feeling of contact with a partner. So the significance of this point for relationships is very difficult to underestimate.
Reverse side
Moods are felt and captured by those men who are quite sensitive themselves. This means that their moods will have to be experienced quite acutely, not only the good ones, but also the bad ones. Again, if you ever want to hide your condition from such a man, it is unlikely to succeed - he will definitely notice and will not calm down until he finds out the reasons.
Sensuality
Just as in the case of attractiveness, everything here is very individual, but, of course, any woman in a relationship would like to realize her sensuality. And for this you need the right man. This does not mean that he must be extremely skillful and sophisticated. The main thing is that he again knows how to feel and understand, and sometimes help the woman open up. So again, what is important here is the man’s desire to pay attention to the woman.
Reverse side
It happens that women dream of a more experienced lover, they think that this would help them learn to get more pleasure from intimacy. But often it’s not the lack of experience of their men, but the fact that they themselves are not ready to open up to it.
Mind
Smart men are always very attractive in the eyes of women. As we have already said, for women, love and intimacy begin with communication, and what communication can bring more pleasure than with an intelligent and interesting man?
Reverse side
It’s sad, but in kitchens, after many years of marriage, intelligent conversations are rarely held. And it turns out that various other virtues are much more important for life than intelligence. Again, smart men are often characterized by intellectual snobbery, and this quality can have rather unpleasant manifestations in everyday life.
Loyalty
Let's complete our list with such an important quality as fidelity. Every woman wants to be the only one for her man. So those relationships in which she feels exactly like this are valuable. This does not mean that a man must refuse any contact with other women to achieve this. But even if he communicates with them, his woman should know and feel that she still remains special to him. This quality has no downside when a woman responds to a man in the same way.
Be wise, my dears, do not demand too much from others, but at the same time look for in people what is really important to you. After all, our happiness depends on this, and there is nothing better when next to us is a person whom we love and appreciate for all his virtues and whom we invariably admire.
With warmth,
Khutornaya Elena
I thank Lena for this conversation. Sometimes it really is so useful to remember all the good things for which we should be grateful to our men. And the men were probably interested in reading everyone’s thoughts. Perhaps this will be a reason to think and even change something in life. Or just enjoy your happy relationship.
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And for the soul, today we will listen to a wonderful composition by an Italian group. Ricchi e Poveri - Cosa Sei. How much time has passed, but how wonderful everything is.
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- From childhood, a child must learn to admit his mistakes. Teach him that publicly admitting his own mistakes is not a defeat, but another step towards future success.
- Give the boy more independence. Mama's boy gets lost among his peers, suffers bullying and ridicule.
- Instill in your child a sense of responsibility for his actions. Let him have certain responsibilities around the house.
- Nurture your child's strength of spirit and discipline. To do this, you should enroll him in a sports section or dance studio.
- Teach the boy to make his own choices. He must be the master of his own destiny. You can start small. The kid himself can choose which shirt to wear in the morning to kindergarten: gray or green. Believe me, in the future the ability to choose a worthy alternative will serve your child well.
- Tell him more often how much you love him. The ability to express his feelings will make your boy stronger. The ability to love and be loved will warm him for the rest of his life.
What should a man be like? Real! Now this status is associated primarily with the attributes of success: a good apartment, a prestigious car, a high position, a significant position in society. But is all this enough for a man to be called real? And is he happy because he meets all the expectations of others? This article will help answer this question.
Man in the modern world
In primitive society, men were valued primarily for the qualities necessary for survival. If he managed to get food and not become a snack for a voracious predator, he was considered a worthy representative of his tribe. Accordingly, at that time agility, physical endurance, strength, and eternal readiness to fight wild animals, the forces of nature and fellow tribesmen were highly valued. If all the tests were passed by a man successfully, then his family was always well-fed and healthy. The primitive woman in those distant times was not tormented by the question of how to please a man. For most of her life, she was pregnant, keeping the fires burning, cooking, and giving birth to children. However, since then everything has changed dramatically. To the question of what qualities a man should have in the modern world, society gives completely different answers.
First of all, women were transformed. Moreover, this process has developed very rapidly in recent decades. Back in the 60s of the last century, a lady could not wear trousers, so as not to be considered funny or ridiculous. But now the fairer sex puts on jeans, looks great in them and can take any position in society. What kind of man must be to be able to defeat such a woman? To do this, it is no longer necessary to have full muscles, broad shoulders and a strong body. Everything is much more complicated.
The main qualities of a man
In the press and on the Internet you can often see tests, after answering the questions of which every representative of the stronger sex can proudly say: “I am a real man!” However, in real life, the tests of authenticity can be much more serious. What are the main positive qualities of a man that are valued nowadays?
First of all, it is responsibility. It doesn’t matter what a man’s status in society is. He must be responsible for his actions, without shifting the blame to anyone else.
In addition, a representative of the stronger sex must have clear life priorities. He must have an idea of what goals are set for him and how to achieve them. Strength of spirit and the desire to steadily move forward are signs of a real man.
A true gentleman must have gallant manners. Only at first glance it seems that this quality is insignificant. The ability to open the door for a lady in a timely manner or to help her carry something heavy shows a person’s good upbringing and the ability to respect a woman.
Admitting your mistakes and making compromises are very important qualities in a man. Only a strong-willed person will be able to say at the right moment: “I was wrong!” and change your point of view. And showing flexibility in an important dispute makes a representative of the stronger sex a person who knows how to overcome disagreements. After all, they become an obstacle on the way to the desired goal, and a real man must be able to overcome them.
Honesty and integrity are necessary for any person. These are very important qualities in a man. In addition, he must have courage and courage, and not so much in the face of hooligans (although this quality can be useful), but in the face of troubles and problems that arise in abundance in our lives.
Hard work is necessary in the modern world. If you want to achieve something, work. Some people behave as if the main activities of a true husband are lying on the couch and drinking beer in cafes, pubs and clubs. However, a person who has not found his place in society gradually degrades. Many people end up drinking themselves to death. A potential alcoholic and a real man, whose qualities evoke the admiration and respect of the fairer sex, are incompatible concepts.
Financial situation and humanity
We answered the question about what a man should be like in character. However, many women believe that the main sign of a worthy representative of the stronger sex is financial wealth. What to do with this established cliché? On the one hand, of course, a man must be able to earn money. Hard work, talent, determination, and a sense of responsibility help such a person. On the other hand, there are people for whom it is important, first of all, to do what they love and to be in harmony with themselves and the world around them. And material wealth is the tenth thing. Can such men be considered real?
Here you need to decide what is most important in a man. Imagine a wise old mathematics professor who spends all day at the university. His salary is small, students laugh at him. He himself loses necessary things fifty times a day, forgets about important meetings and, perhaps, does not care at all about his appearance. However, at the right moment, he is able to stand up for the girl in front of the hooligans. It doesn’t matter how he does it, the main thing is that he can help. Can such a person be called a man with a capital M? Undoubtedly. Or you can drive past the same hooligans in a luxury car and not notice either them or the girl. It happens that awareness of one’s own superiority and unrealistic brutality prevents a representative of the stronger sex from showing basic humanity. So what is the main thing in a real man? Probably, the answer to this question depends on the woman’s preferences.
Emotionality and family relationships
The ability to show your emotions is the lot of strong personalities. A pragmatist, incapable of true feelings, makes loved ones unhappy. Many creative people (Boris Pasternak, Vladimir Mayakovsky, Bulat Okudzhava) were emotional and sensitive, which did not prevent them from being a real support for their beloved women. However, you should not test your husband’s “realness”: force him to watch tearful melodramas or old wedding photographs. Many representatives of the stronger sex believe that showing strong emotions does not suit them, and therefore such tests fail miserably.
What qualities should a man in a family have? He must be a spiritual, physical, emotional and moral support for his loved ones and loved ones. The most serious test of authenticity for a representative of the stronger sex is the woman next to him. If she is beautiful and happy, then she is lucky to have met a real man. And she knows how to match him. Some ladies think that a true husband should be harsh, like Siberian frosts, and hard, like a rock. But at the same time, he must completely avoid bad habits, and he must bring flowers home every day. Such claims relate more to an ideal man than to a real one. And in order to become the companion of such a person, you yourself must not have the slightest flaw.
A man and his appearance
The question of what a man should look like does not have a clear answer. Representatives of the older generation believe that a normal man should not stand out from the crowd. He doesn’t need bright charisma and outstanding external data. Younger people think that in a real man everything should be developed harmoniously. He must have his own style, which makes him easy to find in a crowd and distinguish him from a thousand. Of course, any point of view has the right to exist. “Stay in the middle, looking at the edges,” says popular wisdom. That is, if a man watches his figure, knows how to dress tastefully, has well-groomed nails and hair - this is his own choice. He feels comfortable in this world with exactly this hairstyle and shape of his nails, and it’s stupid to condemn him for this. It’s another matter if he is capable of crying because of a broken nail or an extra kilogram. Then it's really time to sound the alarm. What if a man doesn’t care what he looks like? He will probably have to conquer the world with some other outstanding qualities - kindness, intelligence, sense of humor. And if he falls into good female hands, the first thing they will do with him is put him in order. Still, it is important to be a efficient person, but you also need to periodically remember the beauty of your nails.
Common Misconceptions
What should a man be like to meet the demands of modern society? There are a number of common misconceptions about this. Let's look at some of them.
Boys don't cry. Parents teach this to their child from childhood. This generally accepted stereotype forces men at any age to suppress their emotions, which, by the way, leads to a number of serious diseases. However, nature has awarded tear ducts not only to ladies, but also to gentlemen. And crying is the same manifestation of feelings as, for example, an angry cry or a cheerful laugh. Therefore, it is difficult to call an insensitive blockhead, unable to shed a single tear after the departing beloved girl, a true man, and indeed a normal person in general.
A courageous man must be silent. Another persistent misconception. Among the accomplished people of the stronger sex there are a lot of announcers, politicians, journalists, scientists and lawyers who have an amazing gift of speech. Without this quality, there would be much fewer successful men in the modern world. The gift of persuasion makes any person truly in demand.
If you drink, it means you're a man. Strange stereotype. Is it really necessary for a truly strong man to prove his brutality in this way? Do you need to have any special qualities to pour a glass of alcohol into yourself? While sociologists around the world are trying to understand where this widespread misconception came from in people’s minds, thousands of people around the globe are dying from alcohol. It’s good that common sense is gradually winning over this prejudice.
Men don't dance. Apparently, this cliche was invented by representatives of the stronger sex who do not know how to move gracefully. Many people who have achieved significant heights in various fields relax at entertainment events and enjoy dancing with or without their companions.
Power and authoritarianism are important qualities in a man. Some people think that total control is an integral part of authority and influence. This is how, they say, leadership qualities manifest themselves in a person. However, such a manifestation of authority is rather a sign of suppressed complexes and a narrow mind. A real man must, first of all, be reasonable and fair.
What kind of women do men like?
This article listed the positive qualities of a man. I wonder what a woman should be like to please him? Of course, for a real representative of the fairer sex, the extra two centimeters at the waist and hair color don’t matter, but that’s only later, when she becomes close and practically family to a man. However, initially the lady is still judged by her appearance. The main thing in her appearance is the harmony of the image and grooming. A true lady always adequately assesses her capabilities and will never wear, for example, a short skirt if she does not consider her legs to be impeccable. In addition, a woman should be an intelligent and pleasant conversationalist. If a real man, whose qualities are described in this article, feels that he and his lady have something to talk about, he will not remain indifferent to her. The character of a woman is also important. It must be at least adequate and balanced. The image of a bitch, so widely cultivated in recent years, is only suitable for relationships without special obligations. Nobody wants a person you can't rely on. A woman must be self-sufficient. She must have a favorite thing in life. Then it will not occur to her to bother her beloved over trifles. Naturally, a strong man is looking for a sexy companion. He likes ladies who have their own preferences in bed and are not afraid to experiment.
How to raise a real man
The idea of what a man should be is laid down at an early age. The boy follows the life and everyday life of his parents, and the corresponding model of behavior remains with him for the rest of his life. Everything that a child has absorbed from the cradle, observing the relationship between mom and dad, will affect the formation of his personality more powerfully than beautiful, but unsubstantiated words.
Parents often pay close attention to what toys their child prefers: cars or dolls? They think that this determines the child’s future inclinations. However, the fact that your baby suddenly chose a sewing machine or kitchen utensils in the store instead of a gun or a tractor does not mean at all that he will not grow into a real man. A child actively explores the world around him, and what toys he chooses for this is not so important.
Basic rules of education
To raise your charming boy to be a true provider and protector, you need to follow some simple rules:
Conclusion
In this article we tried to answer the question of what a man should be. The qualities that he needs to survive and succeed in the modern world are far from being fully listed. Each person is individual and requires a special approach. In the end, it doesn’t matter what character traits a particular man has. The main thing is that he is happy. And he knew how to make people close and loved like that. In addition, many great people of this world admitted that they would not have reached such heights if they had not had a patient, wise and judicious companion next to them. Maybe this is the secret of a real man? In the ability to choose a worthy woman who is able to inspire, support and help in all endeavors, despite any obstacles? Everyone must find the answer to this question on their own.
Hello, dear blog readers! Today we will look at the masculine qualities that women value. It is clear that each person may have completely different characteristics as a priority, but still, the list that I have collected can be considered the main one when choosing a partner, no matter sexual or business.
Top 20
1. Responsibility
In the first place, of course, is responsibility. It doesn’t matter what social status or appearance if a man does not know how to take responsibility for his actions. At least for mature and conscious representatives of the fair sex. After all, how can you trust a person who tries to shift the fulfillment of some of his tasks and even blame onto others? A responsible man is able to take care of his family, otherwise, in extreme cases, this responsibility will fall on fragile female shoulders, and this process does not inspire respect at all.
2. Determination
A person who knows exactly what he wants will definitely achieve it. And those who are accustomed to going with the flow will almost never be satisfied with the shore on which they wash up. After all, it is important for a woman to understand that her beloved has not only desires, but also clearly formed goals towards which he is moving, then she can be calm about the future. And aimlessness is the prerogative of those people who waste their lives without appreciating it.
3. Ability to keep your word
To be trusted and believed, you need to be able to not only promise, but also be sure to keep your promises, even if they are completely unprofitable and you change your mind. So don’t throw words to the wind, it will play a cruel joke on you; it is almost impossible to regain lost trust. If you have difficulty with this topic, take a look.
4. Sense of humor
Life without stress, tension and various experiences is impossible; they await us every day and at every step, so a person who is able to defuse the situation and create a comfortable, cheerful atmosphere where you can allow yourself to relax is highly valued.
5. Generosity
Basically, it is not so important for a woman how much a man earns; what is more valuable is what he is ready to give her based on his financial situation. After all, even if he has millions, he can save on such vital things as medicines or groceries. Or earn a little, but still try to please your sweetheart with flowers, new clothes, etc. A greedy person is not able to give, and full-fledged harmonious relationships do not tolerate an imbalance in the “give-receive” process.
6. Confidence
7. Caring
No matter how brutal and strong a man is, it is important for a woman that he knows how to take care of loved ones and herself. It is caring that helps her feel happy in a relationship, loved and valuable. It is care that encourages you to give more in return and experience tenderness, gratitude and recognition for your chosen one.
8. Attention
It’s not for nothing that girls are sometimes compared to flowers that need constant attention because they will also “wither” and worry if they don’t receive it. And this doesn’t mean that you should be next to her 24 hours a day, no, it manifests itself in the little things. For example, hold the door, give an unexpected compliment and, most importantly, hear it and notice it.
9. Loyalty
It is a rare girl who does not dream of a man who will remain faithful to her under any circumstances, even if he is seduced by Miss World. The ability to concentrate on one thing, and not chase after quantity, is actually a sign of maturity and awareness.
10. Honesty
Valuable in absolutely any relationship, otherwise how can you be in them? And by basically telling the truth, you will make your life much easier because you won’t have to keep in your head a whole bunch of unnecessary information about what exactly you lied to and to whom. There are situations when, with the help of lies, we, on the contrary, try to protect loved ones from worries, but if a person uses it constantly, and even then in order to avoid responsibility for his actions and misdeeds or to appear better than he really is - the female half of humanity may not forgive.
11. Openness
You don’t have to shout to the whole world about your deepest thoughts, problems, etc. No, you just shouldn’t close yourself off from your loved ones and be frank with them. It will be important for a person who sincerely loves you to understand what is happening to you and what feelings you are experiencing.
12. Stability, stability and reliability
The unknown causes anxiety, especially when you don't know what to expect from your partner. Subconsciously, representatives of the fair sex choose a person with whom they can create a family in which it will be calm and orderly.
13. Sociability
Sociable people attract attention, therefore, if you want to conquer a girl, you should not sit there looking as if everything and everyone around you is not at all interesting or pleasant to you. Especially if you are among her friends. By arousing the interest of other people, you will let her know that you are truly a special person who is worth paying attention to. See how you can develop qualities that will make you a welcome guest in any company.
14. Mind
I’m sure you’ve heard more than once that cute creatures are sometimes more excited by an intelligent and well-read person than by a pumped-up or simply handsome one. Smart people strive to understand the world, they want to develop and tirelessly move forward. And this is very attractive and exciting to the weak half of humanity. And there will always be something to talk about, to admire...
15. Spirituality
In addition to intelligence, it is very valuable when a partner’s inner world is rich, when he is conscious and understands why he came into this world and how he can be useful. A spiritually poor person is not capable of giving love, much less appreciating it. You can find more detailed information about this.
16. Neatness and sense of style
You don’t have to follow fashion, but if your shirt and trousers are always clean and ironed, and your shoes are polished, you will be able to win the attention of some beauty. But this is half the battle, you also need to worry about the cleanliness of your body, use eau de toilette sparingly and at least get a haircut periodically. It seems like I’m talking about very banal things, but in fact, not everyone considers hygiene and neatness an important component of their life.
17. Temperament
I may surprise you, but women want sex no less than the stronger half of humanity. Therefore, if the chosen one is simply ideal in all manifestations, but is not entirely interesting in bed, then the girl may well end the conversation. Excitement, passion, tenderness and desire of a partner strengthen and make relationships more “alive”, because sexuality is a very significant component of them.
18. Kindness
Heartlessness and cruelty are not only alarming, but also frightening and repulsive. Observing how the chosen one behaves with animals, children, people who need help, the girl draws conclusions regarding their further communication.
19. Strength
Moreover, both physical and mental strength. It is important to be able to protect your loved one, but it is no less valuable to show character in overcoming difficulties, in the process of achieving your goals, and even more so when struggling with various kinds of addictions and weaknesses. By the way, you can check your willpower level using the link.
20. Self-love and self-respect
Conclusion
With this I want to complete the list of the main qualities that attract female representatives. And even if you cannot detect even half of the listed character traits in yourself, it’s okay, because as you know, if you want, you can achieve whatever you want. The main thing is hard work. Strength and patience to you!
The material was prepared by Alina Zhuravina.
