There is an opinion that men are primarily attracted to women by breasts, women's legs, butt, hair, eyes, lips - so to speak, external attributes. What do you think attracts men to women?
There is also another opinion rumored - that men look beyond appearance and are attracted to women's laughter, sense of humor, and intelligence. Both are right.
But in this article you will find more features that you may have never considered before in terms of attractiveness, no matter for status men or young guys.
Can I be honest with you? All this is a far-fetched and pumped up mass media standard, but the reality looks different.
Therefore, instead of just relying on your physical appearance, I advise you to find out other 15 things that are attractive to men, which I am sure most girls possess. So, let's get straight to the point.
Self-confidence is what attracts men to women
Confidence is an attractive trait. Because when a woman knows what she wants, then a man feels that he is being competed with. The truth is that he loves it. Moreover, the man understands that she will take him somewhere... where it’s interesting!
Times have changed, and now men do not want to lead their young lady through life, constantly holding her hand. They want his companion to already be at her level, and this would allow them to walk together, toe-to-toe.
Confidence also shows that you can take control of your life without having to constantly be rescued by your male counterpart. And it is true!
A lady who knows how to confidently present herself, moreover, with pride and self-sufficiency, is incredibly attractive. Because her behavior and the way she carries herself means that she doesn't need to seek anyone's approval. She already approves of herself!
A woman's confidence lets the opposite sex know that he won't always have to reassure her. For example, in the way she looks or what she wears, because the woman is confident.
To top it all off, confidence allows a woman to walk with her head held high, no matter what she looks like. Because she walks as if all eyes are already on her. And if this is not so, she, of course, doesn’t care!
Guys dream of such a “dessert” because they want to be known as conquerors of the hearts of those girls who have captured all other men in their nets. The idea of owning who you are is irresistibly attractive to the male sex.
Love of adventure
Rock climbing, horse riding, skydiving are all extreme sports that showcase the fearless nature and bold side of a person. And this cannot but attract those men who by nature have the same character.
If a girl, within reason, demonstrates her thirst for adventure, this gives guys a reason to think that life with her will not be monotonous. Because variety is the spice of life!
(By the way, you can find a lot of positive thoughts in, as well as, which we recommend reading).
In fact, a sense of adventure doesn't have to come in the form of extreme sports. This could be travel, interesting hobbies, a desire to try something new, and even parties.
Guys are always attracted to girls who are ready to go after what they want and are not afraid to step outside their comfort zone. This feature signifies a passion for life. And what man would not want to revolve around this?
So girls, don’t be afraid of adventure, even if it involves some of your pranks. Don't forget that this is what attracts most men to women.
Your extra pounds and graceful gait
Yes, you read it correctly and don’t think I’m exaggerating. Don't you know that men prefer round shapes? Let's list some reasons why men are attracted to women with some extra pounds.
Sense of humor
Needless to say, a sense of humor is considered by men and women to be one of the best human qualities we look for in a prospective partner. The connection between people through healthy humor is a powerful thing that should not be underestimated.
Men know that girls love to laugh and even laugh, but they also like it when girls can make them laugh. (Probably because they consider this skill an achievement, since they consider themselves masters of humor).
So I’ll tell you a secret, when we joke, we let them know that we don’t take things too seriously, and therefore they can relax a little in our company.
Plus, it shows them that there are beautiful creatures out there who just want to make the world a brighter place with their humor.
Brain and intellectual development
Have you come across articles where girls are advised to play the role of “silly girls” in order to attract male attention? Believe me, they are initially incorrect.
This has always outraged me to the core, and I’m sure you will too. And the facts show that successful men are attracted to smart girls. They like ladies who can be intellectually equal to them and even surpass them in some ways.
They understand that these are girls with brains, and not “dummies or Barbie dolls.” Such girls have other important goals or affairs in their heads, and not just thoughts about marriage.
What attracts guys to girls? Having good intelligence. This guarantees that the “girl with brains” will give them a quiet life.
The only problem is that sometimes you come across guys who are not as intellectually smart as girls.
Your quirks
There is hardly a man who would not like to think that the woman with whom he is in love is one in a million and that no one else is like her.
Perhaps such people will be found among the most inveterate conservatives, and it is unlikely that they will be attracted to the “relationship with the statue” for long.
The main thing is that your quirks are harmless and do not cause harm. You will impress a man when you show that you can play football, fish, or know how Santa Barbara ended (just kidding).
Let him know that it's okay for you to have him be himself too, with his own set of strange habits and hobbies. Your quirks make you who you are and that's the girl he was attracted to in the first place.
From all of the above, do you understand what kind of girls attract guys? Those who are not ashamed of their oddities if they are harmless, but on the contrary, even show them.
Woman's appetite
You don't believe your eyes and are surprised? Do you think I was wrong? But I know what I'm talking about. Stop tormenting yourself by refusing food and eating “half a grain” a day, like Thumbelina, to look tender and feminine. I want to convey to you two important things:
- Guys can see other girls through your skinny and transparent body - more attractive ones in their opinion.
- Men like the sight of a girl eating.
Now I will say something for which many may anathematize me. Having an appetite is an incredibly sexy, sensual thing about a woman. Partly because it stands in stark contrast to the number of ladies who constantly observe, discuss and agonize over their weight.
Men find it attractive to see how a girl knows how to pamper herself with food - be it a plate of hot chicken wings baked over a fire or a large portion of ice cream.
Have you ever wondered why? All this allows them to pay more attention to her lips, tongue and health. For them, this is a kind of signal that a woman does not want to deprive herself of what she likes!
But I’ll make a reservation that having an appetite does not mean that you don’t have to watch your figure. A different rule comes into play here, but that’s another topic.
Women's laughter
This is the next thing that can attract men to women. The sound of women's laughter gives them more confidence in their own attractiveness.
A girlish giggle or a charming laugh from hearing a joke means happiness, carefree and positive. And these are undeniably attractive qualities.
When a woman laughs, she looks more cheerful, open and confident, so that she can throw back her head and enjoy life.
If a man feels like he's a lot of fun to be with, he'll be willing to forgive many of a woman's other shortcomings. Laughter is contagious and if a guy sees you laughing, it will most likely make him smile back. 
In addition, laughter is very useful for girls, as well as for men. It releases a whole bunch of healthy hormones. So in addition to giving abs to a sad face, it can also boost the immune system!
Also, when a woman laughs at a man's joke, she automatically gives him approval to continue the conversation and a possible date.
Therefore, laugh to your heart’s content and, of course, men will find you more attractive than a lady who is embarrassed by her smile.
Female voice
You might be interested in the fact that women are generally attracted to men with deeper, deeper voices. Because they perceive them as more masculine and attractive.
But from a psychological point of view, the opposite rule applies to males. Let's just say they perceive women with higher, more melodic voices as younger, more feminine, and even slimmer.
For guys, a woman's voice is the exact opposite of their own voice. Therefore, hearing the thin, high, melodic sounds of a woman’s voice, their imagination draws a picture of a girl with an attractive appearance, even if they have never seen your face.
There is good news for you. It turns out that a low tone of voice in women can be perceived as more seductive and sexy.
Did you know about this? But frankly speaking, a lady with such a voice is unlikely to appear attractive in a man’s imagination until he sees her.
But if the voice is confirmed by an attractive appearance, then it will become super attractive to a man. So if you don't like the sound of your voice, know that there are plenty of guys who will find it attractive.
Women's hair
The most interesting thing is that hair fluttering in the wind, playing with several strands, winding them around your finger, all these feminine things make guys go into the “dance of imagination” and their hearts beat faster.
Again, long hair is something that most males usually don't have. Additionally, there is also a biological association of long, luxurious hair with fertility, health and youth.
This means that a man can feel attracted to a girl playing with her luxurious hair.
But this does not mean at all that ladies with short hair have no chance and they fall out of the field of vision of the male sex. Nothing like this! Since there are definitely guys who especially like and like short, neat women's haircuts or hairstyles.
Either way, a woman's hair usually smells good, looks great, and is something that most men would like to touch and stroke gently.
The kindness of a woman
Surely you guessed what kind of women attract men - kind ones. One of the most important qualities that the strong half of humanity looks for in representatives of the fair sex is kindness.
Small gestures that show a man your affection, interest in him and kind attitude even when he is wrong, affect him more than appearance.
Some psychologists believe that the kindness shown by a woman reminds a man of his beloved mother, who is usually always kind to her children.
In the world, which is predominantly male, competition, toughness, strength generally rule the roost, and believe me, this exhausts the stronger sex. In order not to get stuck in this, they need an outlet - kindness.
They all want a good, kind friend in life who will not deceive them. So sometimes all women need to do is be kind to men.
your smile
It's a fact that guys are attracted to a girl's smile. After all, a smile symbolizes general happiness and ease.
By the way, I’ll tell you a secret: even a nervous smile in small conflicts can please guys. Because she shows a vulnerability that men find very attractive.
You just look pretty when you smile. And who among the men would not want such a lady next to him?
Well, in order to generally increase the level of attractiveness of this asset, let’s turn to studies that have shown that the stronger sex likes a healthy set of white teeth.
Perhaps a set of pearly white teeth is seen as a symbol of good health and good hygiene. Teeth show that a woman takes care of herself and refuses to indulge in “unsavory habits” such as smoking.
Any variety of smiles: from silly and shy to happy and charming, have proven their attractiveness. So don't be afraid if your smile doesn't reach Hollywood standards - someone will still like it.
Your good manners
Let me try to guess what you thought when you heard about manners. That it’s a little boring and somehow ordinary, isn’t it? But I assure you that guys watch a girl’s manners.
Having good manners, confirmed by politeness, as well as the ability to be grateful - all this is highly attractive to men. And this is true, as an undeniable truth.
Because it tells them about your ability to think about others first. And also about what kind of person you will appear to others in his company, that is, whether he will be ashamed of your manners or not.
It turns out that good manners are a sign that in stressful situations you can act like a mature person, and not a petty little girl. This in absentia reduces the level of possible stress in a man in unforeseen situations.
These are the types of women that attract successful men. Therefore, do not neglect your manners even when you are nervous or in a hurry.
Conversation skills
Have you ever thought that men are bored when their interlocutors have nothing to talk about except the latest gossip? In fact, they fall for girls who are able to clearly express their thoughts or ideas, as well as talk about various topics.
A girl who can carry on a conversation with her wit, humor and intelligence is very attractive to men.
Conversation skills go far beyond just good looks. For example, it makes him understand that there is something more than meets the eye. And he, of course, wants to know more.
Perhaps this is due to the fact that often men themselves are not able to express their thoughts or explain themselves clearly when it comes to communicating with the opposite sex. You've probably noticed this.
In addition to conversational skills, men are also attracted to women's listening skills and ability to show real interest in what the other person is saying.
The stronger sex is impressed when a girl can give practical advice or comment on what they are talking about, but at the same time does not pretend to be “Miss Know-It-All”.
Energy
Women's laziness, slowness or sleep have their merits to some extent. To be honest, and hand on heart, sometimes I myself want to lie in bed one more time.
But the reality is that a man will not deny the great sympathy he feels for a woman who has a lot of energy. He thinks about such a representative of the fairer sex that she looks younger and more active than other women of her age.
And also believes that she is generally a positive person to be around. Because she has a constant release of happy hormones (endorphins) pumping her body.
This does not mean that you necessarily need to become hyperactive and climb walls to attract male attention. But there's definitely a difference between a hot girl at a party and a girl who prefers to sit in the corner all evening staring at her phone.
The former is definitely more attractive than the latter.
If a guy is also energetic, he may see that your energy levels match and at the same time think: “That's my girl, I won't miss it!” Therefore, girls need to try to be more energetic.
Summarize
This list is a good guide for the single lady. Take some time to review these tips before you go on your next hunt.
If, while reading these points, you feel that some of the traits described are contrary to your nature, then there is absolutely no reason to despair. The main trick here is to make yourself available to love, and it will definitely find you.
The science of attraction is actually quite simple. Subconsciously, every girl knows almost everything that attracts men to women. Most of us are simply afraid to wield this weapon (attraction) that we have.
Because sometimes they may seem unnatural or inappropriate to us.
But remember that attraction is a game that women and men have played for centuries. So why not join her?
In this video, Apollo shares his vision of the 7 things that attract guys to girls. Be sure to watch it, it will be interesting.
Tender and affectionate, passionate, soft and expansive, sensual and militant, feminine - all this is a woman, so different and unpredictable.
But why do some women attract men with just one look, while others are not successful among men? We will try to figure this out in our article.
As for appearance, as we know, “there is no friend according to taste.” It all depends on the individual preferences of the man.
Some like brunettes, others like blondes, others like brown-haired women, and others like fiery redheads. Some are crazy about slender and long-legged girls, while others like donuts.
It is worth noting that there are no certain canons of what a woman should be, there are no certain standards.
What matters is not so much your appearance, but the ability to behave and present yourself correctly, to interest a man so that he pays attention to you.
Therefore, you should not rely only on your appearance - you need to work on the inner content of your soul. It is worth remembering that not every beautiful woman is attractive.
Attractiveness and beauty are two completely different elements that complement each other and make a woman irresistible. Some women have natural magnetism and attractiveness, but for some this comes through the process of constant and continuous work on themselves. We will share with you what you need to pay attention to in our article.
Be confident and men will be drawn to you
It is worth noting that most men try to stay away from women with low self-esteem. Such women do not like themselves, do not believe in themselves and, first of all, do not respect themselves. They have accepted terrible treatment because they don't believe anyone can treat them well. And if a woman does not have self-esteem, then others will not respect her.
It is worth noting that men value faithful and devoted women with self-esteem, who do not allow themselves to be wiped out and overstepped.
A confident woman with a free, confident gait and a light smile on her lips will not leave any man’s heart indifferent.
Women who confidently stand their ground and justify their opinions in a polite and mannered manner are popular among men.
At the same time, men don’t like self-confident women who won’t put a price on themselves. No man will want to be next to such a woman; he will simply feel flawed and inferior.
Men are not attracted to complex women. A lady should be moderately relaxed and free. Real men like sexy, but not vulgar women.
Look chic in any situation
There is an opinion that men do not like it when their woman stands out from the crowd and, thus, attracts the attention of others, especially other men. Of course, our lives are not without this, but still, most men love it when their woman is not like everyone else, whom they admire and do not take their eyes off.
A woman should always look breathtaking. All men love women who take care of themselves. A woman should always look charming and attract attention. Only those men who are not confident in themselves and are afraid that they will fight for his girlfriend hold the opposite opinion.
Don't be afraid to take the first step
Many women who succeed in relationships do not follow generally accepted rules and deviate from the standards. They are able to take the first step and be the first to talk to a man. Some men like this and pay attention to such a woman. Moreover, some men are modest and are not able to take the first step towards meeting a woman. But you should be guided by the situation - after all, some men, on the contrary, may be frightened off by such persistence.
There must be a mystery in a woman
Men are attracted to mystery girls who have their own secret that still needs to be solved. But it is worth remembering that there is a fine line between mystery and secrecy that should not be crossed. Most men prefer open, sociable and cheerful women, but coldness, on the contrary, repels them.
Be yourself
Attractive women don't play games with men, they know what they want and don't pretend to be something they're not. You need to be honest and frank with a man. Don't try to look better than you are.
Showing feminine weakness is useful
You shouldn’t be a feminist and show your extra independence; let a man pay for himself in a restaurant and throw a coat over your shoulders. Show weakness - men love it. Show your man your feminine vulnerability, but not your weak character. Make your man feel needed and irreplaceable. Remember, a woman's strength is in her weakness.
Clothes and perfume will do the trick
Clothes should highlight all your advantages and show your individuality and sense of style. Perfume is very important; the pleasant flying scent of a woman will not leave any man indifferent and will make him turn around and pay attention to her.
Such illogical men
It is known that most men try to avoid women who:
- they talk a lot and don't talk at all;
- eat a lot and are obsessed with their external weight;
- too abstruse and stupid;
- very noisy and too modest.
Although these points contradict each other, this is the truth, because the only solution is the golden mean, which, as we know, should be in everything.
A few more tips
- Men like women who have their own hobbies and interests.
- Men love women who do not judge men by their wallet size, car brand, career or reputation and then try to do everything in their power to make her happy.
- Men prefer women who are active and energetic, with a strong position in life, who know what they want.
- Stand out from the crowd, be individual and unique.
- Be a flirt and it will not leave anyone indifferent.
- The voice is also important - sweet and sexy, quiet, muffled, soft and low. Play with your voice.
- A woman should be different, at the same moment, always remain herself.
- Normal men do not pay attention to easily accessible women with provocative appearance.
- Be calm and confident, natural, pleasant, cheerful and carefree.
Be yourself and your true love will find you. If a man doesn't like you for who you are, then this man is not for you.
Men can also afford to “dig” into candidates for a place in their hearts, especially when it comes to choosing a life partner with whom he plans to live and raise children. And here it turns out that not all female traits are liked by men.
1. Inability to manage a household. Well, why does a man who plans to start a family need an incompetent wife who, let alone cook dinner, cannot sew a button? And if children appear, they also need care and supervision, not to mention education. But a woman can’t do this. No, a man definitely won’t choose this option.
2. Laziness. Does the girl spend most of her time at the computer, chatting with her friends on the phone, lying on the sofa, or doesn’t look up from the TV? Men don’t need such “happiness” either. Especially if a man is purposeful, builds a career, earns money, and a woman is waiting for him at home who has done absolutely nothing around the house because she was too lazy to tear herself away from the contact. I think that few men would agree to take on women’s housekeeping duties as well.
3. Activity and high intelligence. Paradox, but also too active, purposeful 
Women scare men too. A man does not want to be “under the thumb”, subject to constant criticism and be controlled. And, moreover, the last thing most men want is to depend on women. And if a girl also clearly has a predominant intellect and breadth of outlook, men simply stop perceiving her as a potential candidate, so as not to look stupid and pathetic compared to her.
4. Greed. Does a woman just ask and ask for money, entertainment and fulfillment of any whim? According to a man’s logic, such a woman is only interested in his wallet and physical strength. Moreover, she herself is unable or does not want to contribute anything to the family budget, and any requests for services make her hysterical. It’s understandable why men are put off by women who evaluate their partners solely based on their financial status.
5. Problematic. If a girl constantly complains about her problems, illnesses, difficult circumstances, constantly finds herself in tense situations and is depressed, she is unlikely to be able to quickly find a partner. After talking with such a girl, a man understands that even as the relationship develops, this flow of negativity will not stop. But you really want to come home, where your beloved wife or girlfriend is waiting for you, who will warm up the evening with her smile and lift your spirits. Who wants to live with an “eternal crybaby”?
6. Bitchiness. The attitude of men towards this trait of female character is a natural paradox. At the initial stages of relationships, men even like it and do not cause any negative emotions. But over time, bitchy women begin to “stress” men. Men themselves are not able to answer the question of why they first surrender to the power of a bitch, and then break off the relationship. Although some radically opposite types of men (“rags” and “machos”) can live their whole lives with a bitch.
7. Beauty. Another paradox of male logic. If a girl is very beautiful, almost perfect, a man will be afraid to approach her, if only because he will never believe that such a girl is lonely. And if the acquaintance does take place, with all his desire, the man most likely will not insist on developing the relationship, because he will be afraid to be a “gray mouse” compared to his companion. Well, there is no escape from the subconscious fear of betrayal, even if the girl does not give any reason for such thoughts. So it turns out that smart, beautiful women spend their days alone, while their more bitchy rivals are in full swing with men.
8. And one more feature of male logic: men are afraid of women who are similar to their mothers (either in appearance or in character). At the same time, there is an opinion that a man is looking for a life partner who is at least somewhat similar to his mother. And this opinion is correct. But if the similarity turns out to be simply striking, the man will not continue the relationship: firstly, the image of a mother is sacred and is not applicable to a life partner, and secondly, there is a subconscious fear that the woman, just like the mother, will start educate and control a man.
9. "Sharp tongue." Men do not want to be the object of constant sarcastic ridicule, especially 
more in the company of mutual friends. Especially if the man himself cannot boast of a sense of humor. And you cannot be rude or sarcastic in response: the woman will be offended. Therefore, men find themselves in a hopeless situation: they need to give an adequate response to ridicule, but the issue cannot be resolved “in a purely masculine way.” So such a girl is more likely to become the soul of the general company, but not a life partner (at least until she comes across the same “wit”).
The list goes on for a long time. Every man has his own preferences and fears. Some people like giggles, while others can’t stand them, some are crazy about businesswomen, and some would like to connect their lives with a cute housewife. The choice is on the side of men: accept and come to terms with some feminine qualities, or continue to look for the ideal girl he sees in his fantasies.
What attracts men to women
But not everything is so hopeless for girls who, for some reason, are included in the above list. “Negative” qualities, from the point of view of men, can be balanced by those traits that men, on the contrary, are attracted to. And then, perhaps, what initially repulsed a man will turn into the notorious female “highlight”.
1. Sex appeal. A woman's sexual attractiveness plays a big role for a man. The more feminine and sensual the companion, the better. Moreover, many even like it when strangers turn around after their significant other. The main thing is that the man does not go to the other extreme: does not begin to be jealous of the girl for everyone.
2. Appearance. Society has generally accepted standards of beauty. But, as practice shows, each man’s priorities for female beauty are purely individual. Therefore, even girls who do not have a model appearance have every chance of finding a mate. The main thing is that the figure is feminine, this “fad” is in men’s blood.
3. Facial expressions, gaze, movements. Bright makeup and ideal facial features, according to men, are not the most important thing in a woman. Pleasant facial expressions and body movements are more important. Smooth, graceful movements, a sweet smile, a soft look can conquer any man.
4. Clothes. Yes, men pay attention to clothes. Moreover, it is not at all necessary that
some dress was “mini” and hugged all the feminine charms. Just the opposite, like thisA girl will not be taken seriously by a man. But men really like elegant, tasteful clothes that can emphasize a woman’s individuality, highlight all that is best and hide all that is undesirable.
5. No bad habits. Considering that there are fewer and fewer girls without bad habits, such ladies are very popular among men. Of course, this is not the most important factor in choosing a life partner; after all, everyone has their own shortcomings. But, nevertheless, if a girl smokes cigarettes like a locomotive, drinks like a real alcoholic, and swears no worse than Uncle Vasya’s janitor, she has little chance of being noticed.
6. Cheerfulness. A bright, positive, smiling girl involuntarily attracts the glances of all the men around her. There is already little positive in modern life; everyone has their own burden of problems on their shoulders. But if, despite this, the girl remains cheerful and cheerful, she has little chance of being left alone.
7. Caring. Even the most stern and independent men sometimes want to be taken care of, brought a mug of tea while he watches a movie, or looked after when a man is sick. At the same time, caring should not develop into guardianship; men do not like this. Well, except for gigolos, who are used to living in the support of women.
8. Economy. Although women's love for shopping has become the talk of the town, women know how to save money - at least for a new dress. The ability of women to “stretch” the remainder of their salary so as to pamper themselves and not experience financial difficulties amazes men. And if this female ability is transferred into a “peaceful” direction, aimed at the family budget, the man will be very pleased.
9. Grooming. Men have no idea how much time and effort it takes girls to be beautiful and fresh every day. Well, let them not imagine, it doesn’t matter to them. The main thing is that the girl is always pleasant to look at and touch. A man will even put up with a huge number of jars and tubes in the bathroom (as long as it doesn’t take up half of the family budget).
And again, this is not a complete list. In general, a woman as such always remains a mystery for men that cannot be completely solved. By the way, this is what attracts many people to women: the opportunity to understand women’s thinking, women’s habits.
So choosing a life partner for men turns into a serious task: what to accept and what he can put up with, what he will never put up with, what attracts him more. If the choice is made consciously, happy couples appear who will spend their entire lives together.
But men should not forget about themselves: you may find the ideal girl, in your opinion. But will she want to be near you if you don’t have masculine qualities attractive to girls?
Women are more likely than men to display emotional instability and anxiety. Research has shown that women with high levels of neuroticism are less satisfied with their relationships. However, some scientists have suggested that moderately restless representatives of the fair sex can attract men
Having studied the results of various studies in the field of gender relations, scientists have found out which behavioral characteristics and external traits of the weaker sex seem most desirable to men:
1. Moderate neuroticism
Women are more likely than men to display emotional instability and anxiety.
Research has shown that women with high levels of neuroticism are less satisfied with their relationships.
However, some scientists have suggested that moderately restless representatives of the fair sex can attract men, because they view such a woman as a good mother who cares about the well-being of her children.
2. Red clothes
We all know that the color red is traditionally associated with passion, eroticism and romance. Researchers Andrew Elliott and Daniela Niesta believe that the color red actually makes men feel more attracted to women.
Men's reaction to red most likely has deep biological roots. For example, to attract individuals of the opposite sex, primates use the color red as a marker calling for mating.
3. Waist-to-hip ratio
There is a magic number of 0.7 - the coefficient of the ideal ratio of waist and hip volumes in women. It is believed that such women are most attracted to European men. 0.7 means that a woman's waist circumference is 70% of her hip circumference.
In other cultures, this ratio may vary from 0.6 to 0.8 depending on the preferences of men in those cultures.
From an evolutionary point of view, an index less than 0.6 indicates an inability to bear children, and an index exceeding 0.8 indicates difficulty conceiving due to excess weight.
4. Large eyes and proportional mouth
Large eyes are considered attractive by almost all nationalities. The reason is that while this trait may be an indicator of femininity, it is also associated with long-term health and reproductive function.
According to Michael Cunningham's research into physical attractiveness, men consider the ideal female mouth to be one that occupies 50% of the width of the face at mouth level.
5. Beautiful body
In 2010, psychologists Jaime Confer, Caryn Perilux and David Boss, based on their experiments, came to the conclusion that men, when looking for a partner for a short-term relationship, pay more attention to a beautiful body, rather than to the face.
The basic idea is that when cavemen pursued a short-term mating strategy, body cues, such as whether a potential sexual partner was fertile or already pregnant, would have informed the man whether his efforts would be worth it (from a genetic perspective).
In other words, for the modern man looking for a one-night stand, a great body is of paramount importance.
6. Agreeableness and the ability to empathize
In his research, Daniel Nettle of Newcastle University in the UK found that on the Personality Type Differences Inventory, women rated empathy significantly higher on the measurement scale than men.
Moreover, the researcher suggested that empathy could be considered a form of compliance.
In theorizing about the origins of this gender difference, Nettle hypothesized that for our ancestors, the ability to create and maintain social alliances was probably relatively more important for women than for men, because women are more concerned about ensuring the survival of their offspring.
In today's world, this means that men may find women who are extroverted, flexible, and empathetic more attractive than those who exhibit less of these traits.
7. Ovulation
A large body of scientific research demonstrates the ability of people to unconsciously recognize a wide range of chemicals released by the body (not just pheromones) that signal the reproductive status of a potential partner. Psychologists Saul Miller and John Maner conducted an experiment in which they invited men and gave them to smell three T-shirts that were worn by ladies at different periods of the menstrual cycle.
As it turned out, the level of testosterone in saliva increased in those men who sniffed women's T-shirts during ovulation. This meant that the strong half of humanity prefers the smell of women precisely during the period of ovulation and will be more eager to get closer to the woman from whom he “heard” such a signal.
By the way, further study of that same group of men and women yielded another interesting result: men in relationships, unlike single men, found girls less attractive in appearance during the period of ovulation, thereby emphasizing that other variables, such as the desire to maintain current relationships can influence desires and behavior.
8. The ability to self-sacrifice
A study published in 2007 by Vladas Griskevicius and his colleagues from Arizona State University found that romantically inclined women are more likely than men to engage in volunteer activities and charity work.
However, the catch is that women prefer to show their selflessness in public places, which may be due to unconscious sexual motivation and the belief that a man will be attracted to this trait.
9. Respect for a man
One of the main complaints men have in long-term relationships is that they often hear criticism directed at them, as if nothing they do can satisfy their partner.
In other words, they feel undervalued, which has (and this is not surprising) disastrous consequences for the sex life and relationships of partners in general.
Relationship expert John Gottman has stated that partners who regularly show appreciation and appreciation for each other have higher rates of overall satisfaction with their relationship.
10. Face
If a man aims to commit himself to a long-term relationship, his attention concentrates on the woman’s face.
Researchers from the University of Texas at Austin estimate that for 75% of men, facial attractiveness plays a key role in long-term mating strategy, not body attractiveness.
And researchers at the Kinsey Institute came to the conclusion that during sex, men tend to look first at their partner’s face.
Men It’s enough to just choose the women he likes. A representative of the fair sex should be attractive, cheerful and well-groomed, and then he will take a closer look at her and look for something that he likes. Women approach the choice of a companion much more seriously, based not only on external data, but also on the character traits that she prefers.
Actually practically every woman there is a list of the main male qualities by which she is looking for a life partner. Sometimes it can be simple loyalty and sincerity, and sometimes intelligence, restraint and the ability to make decisions are needed. One way or another, there are some masculine qualities that attract absolutely all women. If you want to attract the attention of a specific person, then you need to try to meet the following requirements.
What qualities attract women in men?
1. Care and attention from men. A woman will always give preference to someone who pays a lot of attention to her and is ready to do anything for her. This character trait is not inherent in all representatives of the stronger sex. It happens that a man was raised in a family where it was not customary to show one’s emotions and spend free time on a loved one. That is why a man brought up in such conditions will be confident that the woman he loves is another area of his life on which he should not spend a lot of time. A woman, in turn, wants to receive a lot of attention, love and care, so she will give preference to a man who can provide this to her.
2. A man's sense of humor. This quality is also important for all women. When in company, she will always give preference to someone who knows how to joke subtly and attracts attention with his positive attitude. A sense of humor is always relevant, even if your woman is phlegmatic. Cheerful people who know how to joke make you want to communicate, get to know them better and be imbued with their positivity. With a cheerful person it is much easier to overcome life's difficulties and fight bad moods, so women will be happy to start a relationship with a positively minded young man.
3. Determination in men. Many men believe that women only care about their salary and level of the career ladder. In fact, most women pay attention to what a particular man wants and how he achieves his goals. A man who knows exactly what he wants and works every day to fulfill his dreams and achieve his goals will always attract the attention of the fair sex and command their respect. It is worth paying attention to the fact that women are always looking for free men who are absolutely confident in their strengths and capabilities. Sometimes such self-confidence is unjustified, but how such a man feels is important for absolutely all women.
4. Decent appearance of men. Women, of course, are not as obsessed with appearance as men, but they also pay attention to what a particular representative of the stronger sex looks like. Men want to see next to them an incredible long-legged beauty with a gorgeous bust, who will arouse his admiration and the envy of his friends. It is only important for a woman that her loved one is neat, wears clean clothes that fit him well and does not let his figure slip. There's really nothing complicated about it, but many men don't even stick to it and then wonder why women don't pay attention to it.
5. Passion of men. Almost all women are very emotional, so passion in a relationship is really important for them. must constantly compliment her, be faithful and devoted, and in bed - sexy and hot. These simple rules can be the key to a happy family life, because the cold between two people always creates distance. A passionate man excites women's minds and hearts and knows how to conquer with just one glance. Romantic dates, beautiful words and bright nights of love - all this makes women submissive and in love.
6. The mind of men. No matter how smart and well-read a woman is, she always wants to see next to her a worthy life partner who can support any conversation or even teach her something. Of course, if a woman is not very smart, then she will not pay much attention to the IQ level of a particular representative of the stronger sex, but most ladies look for intelligence in a man. But you shouldn’t go too far, because some harsh statements can become an insult to a woman, because she doesn’t want to feel small compared to her loved one. If you constantly brag to a lady about your deep knowledge of science, then sooner or later she will find someone who will be less well-read, but will also recognize her intelligence.
7. Self-confidence in men. Just like a man, a woman will never give preference to a member of the opposite sex who suffers from complexes and is not confident in his words or actions. In order to evoke real admiration from a woman and attract her attention, it is important to be as confident as possible and make a pleasant impression on others. No matter how strong and self-confident a woman is, she always wants to see an equally worthy companion next to her. A man may not have any positive qualities that women like so much, but his confidence that he is the best will always set him apart from other representatives of the stronger sex.
8. Sociability of men. A man who wants to attract the attention of women must behave at ease in any company, be able to carry on a conversation and be an interesting conversationalist. If he wants to spend the entire time at a party alone at a table with a glass of cognac, then it is unlikely that he will attract the attention of the fair sex.
Always cheerful and self-confident boy, who is the center of attention and entertains those around him, will arouse the interest of women. To do this, you don’t need to be able to juggle oranges, organize an evening of humor or dance competently, you just need to actively communicate and evoke positive emotions in your interlocutors.
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